Practice Random Thinking

A few weeks ago, I attended a forum of city and regional managers discussing various issues that are affecting local governments in British Columbia. In the last part of the forum, those local government executives participate to an unscripted, open session called “Nuts & Bolts” during which individuals having issues they wish to discuss with their peers bring them forward with the intent to find out how others deal with them. It is a way to share ideas and to brainstorm for best practices and possible solutions. No agenda is prepared and the free flow of questions and answers favours a correspondent flow of ideas that is pretty unique and extremely valuable. One of the city managers went on to say that this session, to him, is the most important one of and the main reason he participates to this annual event.

Similarly, a few years ago, I participated to a church leaders training in Surrey where something similar happened. The presiding officer, David A. Bednar, an educator by profession and, at that time, the president of Brigham Young University Idaho, introduced to the group a different way of training based on free flow of ideas. He called it a “revelatory experience” based on impressions and promptings solicited by scriptural study and influenced by the Holy Spirit. This experience was also a turning point in my life and I began applying it in various aspects of my learning.

Although both experiences are different as to audience and subjects of discussion, they are very similar as to the means of learning applied. I call it “Random Thinking” and I believe it is a necessary aspect of true personal growth and progressive leadership.

We can apply this mental process to almost everything. In fact, I believe that this ties very well with the principle of ‘learning by observation and feeling’ that I have discussed in my articles many times before. For instance, it could be applied in decision-making based on story-telling and not only on facts and empirical data. The reason I say this is that we tend to forget that decisions are made by individuals and that bias and emotional intelligence play an important role in all we do.

The point is that we cannot discard how someone perceives something and how that may affect that person’s life. I have seen too many times applying a “cookie cutter” approach to diverse issues. It is distressing and conflictual. In fact, negatively conflictual. The fact is that we live in communities and societies and so we interact with other people and although conflict is inevitable there is always a way to minimize it. Albert Schweitzer once said: “Man can no longer live his life for himself alone. We realize that all life is valuable and that we are united to all this life. From this knowledge comes our spiritual relationship with the universe.” One of the problems of today’s society is that individuals tend to put themselves first a little too much and this creates a selfish approach to human interaction.

However, I continue to foster hope and I was recently encouraged by a very personal and dramatic event that occurred just a few days ago. My family and I were driving on the highway to reach our destination for a well-deserved break when our vehicle drove over a sheet of ice. My wife lost control of the car and after a few scary spinning moments it rolled over and ended up in a ditch. We were all wearing seat belts but because of the rollover we were also in a very uncomfortable position within the van. My father-in-law, who was sitting beside me, ended up on me as his seat belt failed to support his weight. I was even more uncomfortable because his full weight was pressing against my head and neck. I had to exert all my physical strength to support his body to avoid that he would cover my face and deprive me of my respiratory ability. My main concern, at that point, was how long it would take for rescuers to reach us and free us from our vehicle because I was not sure how long I would be able to continue support my father-in-law’s body.

Well, in a matter of seconds after the accident a number of people stopped their cars and started to work on our vehicle and we were all freed in minutes. To me that was an example of selfless genuine interest in other human beings’ need for help which continues to and will continue to impress me for the rest of my life. My point is, we do not need to wait until a drama happens to help others. In fact we can avoid a drama to unfold if we decide to collaborate and find synergistic approaches to problem-solving.

Maybe we should remember more often what Anne Frank wrote in her diaries before her capture: “I don’t think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains.” Certainly, a new approach can start only with us. Are we willing to change?

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About alby59

Alberto has a 25-year plus career in Local Government which began as City Manager in Italy. He currently serves as Chief Administrative Officer for the District of Lake Country in beautiful Central Okanagan BC. In addition, Alberto is Adjunct Professor to the Political Science Department of the University of Northern British Columbia and teaches a variety of local government related courses. He has developed a series of lectures on Leadership and Ethics and is designing a Project Management course aimed at Local Government and public sector practitioners. Very active in both his professional and academic life, Alberto has served as President of the Local Government Management Association of BC and the Association of Records Management Administrators of BC and Yukon. He also served as member of the Federation of Canadian Municipalities (FCM) Tsunami Recovery Committee for the reconstruction of communities and local governments in Sri Lanka and Indonesia hit by the 2004 Tsunami and managed an FCM capacity building program with the City of San Fernando, La Union in the Philippines while with the Township of Langley. Alberto has earned facilitator certifications with Franklin Covey and Cognitive Edge, and continues to foster his interest in personal education and professional development. He is an avid reader, music lover, and science fiction movie aficionado. He plays guitar and piano for fun and sings with his wife and his children. He is also very active in his church and community being a former Rotarian and currently serving as the Second Counselor in the Thompson Okanagan (Vernon Stake) Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. However, his most important interest is his family: his wife Silvana and their two children Victor and Grace.
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16 Responses to Practice Random Thinking

  1. John Hack says:

    As always, very enlightening. Black Ice is very scarey. Hope all is ok.

  2. Roy Prevost says:

    Alberto, first, I am relieved that you and your family escaped that accident, relatively unscathed. Secondly, I concur with your comment on Random thinking. We tend to have moved into a world of ‘politically correct’ thinking and we are not well served by this, in my opinion. Coincidentally, we are contemplating holding a philosophers cafe at our church and having a free wheeling discussion on, ” are dogmatic religions out of touch with 21st century realities?” and we plan to have a catholic priest and an imam join us for the discussion. I look forward to that time of ideas and opinions.
    Keep well, my friend

    • alby59 says:

      Thank you Roy. I agree with your comment. I hope that your cafe goes well. It is always very interesting to find the common ground and understand what others think about life and its intricacies.

  3. mondoconde says:

    Good to hear Alberto, that you and your family survived such an accident, and that you and your family are doing well. Enjoyed the subject of your blog.

  4. Dear Alberto,
    a unique deep anthropologic analisys. Different ways to think and to behave. Just last monday I was with some IUAV students speeking about wasy to tink in a lecture. Not only logic but radiant, systemic, lateral thinking and obliquity as way to approach. Yesteday again with workers. Not only. Also canadian biggest communicator of history, Marsall McLuhan underline the way in which we approach to man extension. School must pay attention at everything you say. You ca find the seeds of Fifth Discipline of Peter Senge. In London too, twoo weeks ago I told in a lecture how important ahre human resources that you describe in your post. Take care and keep in touch.
    Paul

    • alby59 says:

      Thank you Paolo and yes I speak Italian (I was born and raised there but I have lived in Canada for the past 20 years).

  5. Keith Ogden says:

    Sorry for your accident! Glad others helped. Hope all is now well. Keep up the good work!

  6. James Moller says:

    So glad to hear that you and your family are ok. Too many times we get caught up in ourselves and don’t look beyond our own shell, when all too often life is all around us. We are a part of it, we are not it.

  7. beaudidly says:

    Alberto, always an interesting read. Isn’t it fascinating how effective stories are at getting points across – no better way to deliver a message.

  8. Heidi says:

    So glad you are okay. I love the term random thinking. One thing I always tell my council is that we need to think differently.

  9. Sue Gardner says:

    Thanks for sharing this interesting perspective on “random thinking,” Alberto. It is good to note how even small exercises that take us outside the box of our typical approaches can have a profound effect on our way of thinking. Also, how major events – like your accident – can highlight what is truly important as we go about our daily lives, and the opportunities that are often missed. So thankful your story had a happy ending for your and your family.

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